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What to do When God Doesn't Answer Your Prayers

What do you do when God feels distant and your prayers seem to go unanswered? Here are some ways to process as you wait on answers to prayer.

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Have you ever found yourself pouring out your heart to God but feeling like your prayers are falling on deaf ears? It can be disheartening and confusing when it seems like God isn’t answering our prayers – and it makes us wonder if he even hears our prayers at all. But rest assured, you're not alone in this experience. Many people throughout history have grappled with similar feelings. Let's dive into some practical steps to take when God appears silent in response to your prayers. 

What to do When God Doesn’t Answer Your Prayers 

Before we go further, it’s important to note that while it might feel like God is ignoring your prayers, he isn’t. The Bible reminds us in John 5:14-15 that he hears us, and he will respond. Sometimes those responses don’t look the way we expect or arrive the way we thought they would, but that doesn’t mean God isn’t working behind the scenes. However, it doesn’t make the waiting and uncertainty any easier! Here’s how to process the emotions, doubts, and questions that come with seemingly unanswered prayers: 

1. Acknowledge Your Emotions 

First and foremost, it's essential to take inventory of your feelings and give yourself space to process them when you feel like God doesn’t answer prayers. It's okay to feel frustrated, disappointed, or even angry. Give yourself permission to experience these emotions without guilt. 

Most importantly, be honest with God about how you feel – he isn’t put off by our human feelings. (Remember, he created us as emotional beings!) Expressing your emotions can help you find peace and clarity in the midst of uncertainty. 

2. Seek God's Guidance 

It’s tempting to try to draw our own conclusions about why God doesn’t answer prayers. But since we have access to him (Ephesians 3:11-12), why not go straight to the source? It’s okay to ask God why he didn’t answer your prayer! In times of spiritual struggle, it's crucial to seek God's guidance. Spend time in prayer and meditation, asking him for wisdom and understanding.  

Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and he may have a different plan or timing for your life. Trust God and remember that he knows what's best for you, even when you can't see it. Seek his guidance through Scripture by reading passages that offer clarity and comfort during times of waiting or uncertainty. 

3. Look for Lessons in the Silence 

God doesn’t withhold answers to our prayers as a form of punishment for bad behavior. However, he knows when our hearts aren’t in the right place (James 4:3). Sometimes, God's apparent silence is really his way of giving us a much-needed heart check when we’re praying with the wrong motives. 

Take this time to reflect on your relationship with God and examine your own motives and desires. Ask yourself if there's anything in your life that may be hindering your prayers. Maybe there are areas where you need to seek forgiveness or make changes. Use this period of waiting to grow in faith and develop a deeper understanding of God's plans for your life. 

4. Find Support in Community 

When God doesn't answer your prayers, you might experience frustration, discouragement, or doubt. These are difficult feelings you don’t want to walk through alone! Surround yourself with people who can encourage and pray for you during this challenging time. Connect with others who have experienced similar struggles and can offer guidance or a listening ear.  

At LCBC, there are Groups for all kinds of life stages and experiences, which can be a great way to find people who can empathize with your situation. Sharing your burden with others can provide comfort and remind you that you're not alone in your journey. 

5. Be Open to Alternative Answers 

It’s easy to jump to the conclusion that God doesn’t answer prayers when we don’t get exactly what we asked for exactly when we asked for it. But what if God is answering, just in an unexpected way? 

While it may feel like God isn’t answering your prayers in the way you desire, it's essential to remain open to alternative answers. God's plans are often different from our own, and he may be working behind the scenes in ways we can’t comprehend. Stay open to unexpected opportunities or solutions that may arise, even if they seem different from what you initially envisioned. Remember, God's plan is always for your ultimate good (Romans 8:28). 

6. Practice Patience and Perseverance 

Waiting on God can be challenging, but these times give us a great opportunity to cultivate patience and perseverance. Remember that God's timing is perfect, even if it doesn't align with our desires or expectations. Keep praying, seeking his guidance, and trusting in his faithfulness 

Embrace the waiting season as a chance to strengthen your character and deepen your faith. Remember this encouragement from R omans 5: “We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.”  

7. Focus on Gratitude 

During times of waiting, it's easy to become fixated on what we lack or what we're waiting for. Instead, shift your focus to gratitude. Cultivate a heart of thankfulness for the blessings and answered prayers you have already experienced. (Keeping a journal of your written prayers is a great way to look back and see how God has come through for you in the past!) Gratitude helps to shift our perspectives. Counting your blessings can bring joy and contentment even in the midst of unanswered prayers. 


When it feels like God doesn’t answer prayers, remember that he is always listening, even when he seems silent. As you navigate this season, remember that God hears your prayers and he’s guiding and directing your steps, even when it's not readily apparent. Here are some helpful and encouraging resources: 

Does Prayer Work? 

What Does the Bible Say About Prayer? 

3 Steps to Teaching Your Kids How to Pray 

Bible Reading Plan: Pray Through the Psalms 


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