From chapters 3 through 12, Paul presents other ways people feel superior to others. When we get to this chapter, he says love is what really makes us superior. If I鈥檓 superior at loving, I鈥檓 not going to feel or act superior. Love is going to motivate me to seek what is best for the other person. This isn鈥檛 just a chapter to read at weddings; it鈥檚 how we should handle all of life.